Days of Hearts and Roses

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I have to admit, I’m not a fan of Valentine’s Day.

There. I said it. Me, a romance author, not enamored of the one holiday of the year specifically designed to celebrate love, which is what I write is all about. The hypocrisy, you say!


Well, wait a minute now. I didn’t say I wasn’t a fan of love. Quite the contrary. I think showing the people you love that they mean the world to you is awesome.  It’s the idea that we have to squeeze that expression of affection into the commercially accepted mold that bugs me. What comes to mind when you think of Valentine’s Day? Flowers and candy? Jewelry? A fancy dinner at an expensive restaurant?


Those are things. Things we don’t need. Maybe even things we don’t want. But societal expectations say we give candy and flowers, so we give candy and flowers, even if the cost of those roses has been inflated by up to 100%, and even if the recipient of that heart-shaped box of chocolates is still desperately clinging by their fingertips to their New Year’s resolutions not to give in to the seductive lure of sugar. Americans spent almost $19 billion last year on Valentine’s Day. That with a B, folks. That’s a lot of candy hearts.


You know what I want for Valentine’s Day? Time. Time to spend with my husband. Not going out to a fancy restaurant, or exchanging gifts. Just us, being together. Me and him, sitting on the couch, eating pizza, watching a movie and playing with the dog. No phones, no computers, no social media. Simply one evening of connecting the way we used to before life got in the way.


That is a gift worthy of a holiday.

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  So, I’ve told you what I want for Valentine’s Day.  Now you tell me. What would be your perfect Valentine? Everyone who comments from now until midnight, February 13th, will be entered to win the prize package pictured below (US only, I’m afraid, but if someone from outside the US wins, an Amazon gift card will be substituted). One winner will be randomly selected on, fittingly, February 14th.

[[Of course my website picks now to have technical issues. So if there’s no comment box below, just go to the ‘contact me’ page and leave your comment, and you’ll be entered. Sorry, and hope to have this straightened out soon!]]


And, as an added bonus, visit my Facebook author page between February 10th and 12th to enter a SECOND giveaway as part of the Valentine’s Day Book Hop!

Congratulations to legacy18, you’ve won the Valentine’s prize pack!


10 thoughts on “Days of Hearts and Roses

    Crystal Young said:
    February 10, 2016 at 3:58 pm

    Chocolate and then snuggling on the couch watching a movie would be a great Valentine.


    amartinez87 said:
    February 10, 2016 at 4:20 pm

    Mine would be a dinner and a movie. Nothing too special. I’m not a big fan of Valentine’s Day.
    Thanks for the chance!


    legacy18 said:
    February 10, 2016 at 10:07 pm

    My perfect idea of a valentine is spending a quiet evening under the stars and moon somewhere by the beach on the sand or an open grassy field with all different kinds of flowers alas that’s just a fantasy not reality and I don’t really celebrate valentines to me everyday is a day to show love not just one specific day of the year.


    Melissa said:
    February 10, 2016 at 10:08 pm

    Time alone with my hubby


    Michele Hayes said:
    February 11, 2016 at 2:19 am

    My perfect day would be just spending time with my husband, reading or watching a movie, just being together. Thanks for the chance to win.


    Lindsey Elaine said:
    February 11, 2016 at 2:22 am

    I would love to just have my boyfriend moved in by Valentine’s. That would be the best gift. I would care if we were moving furniture in. As long as by the end of the night we could snuggle in each others arms, and finally being able to wake up next to one another. Thank you for this great chance!!


    Lindsey Elaine said:
    February 11, 2016 at 2:42 am

    My first comment didn’t show up. I would love to lay back with blankets in the back of a truck and watch the clouds, and have a nice packed lunch together. With it being 75 degree whether in Oklahoma today. I’d say that’s perfect weather for this!


    karlee said:
    February 11, 2016 at 7:50 pm

    my perfect valentine would be to find my guy first! thanks for a chance!


    Mary M. said:
    February 12, 2016 at 5:43 am

    You outlined my perfect Valentine’s day with my hubby and our crazy dachshund.


    legacy18 said:
    February 14, 2016 at 7:41 pm

    Thank you so much for the prize


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